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See - some of my favorite genshin characters are male but as a whole I like a lot more of the females. Maybe its a personal problem but Iā€™ve had waaaaay too many people I know in passing shove the female characters aside or shit on them for the sole reason to obsess over certain males that itā€™s made me go the opposite direction.

I assume most of you are healthy about it but the amount of people I see acting borderline woman hater just so they can imagine or project every male character being together is next level. Being obnoxious with female character hate isnt going to make them actually cease to exist just so you can live in yaoi land.

I even say this as a person with barely any het ships in rp, so its not like I hate it from that standpoint either.
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Yeah, I'm not one of them. I do usually not enjoy female designs in games because they often focus too much on being either sexy or too ditzy, to the point of impractical clothing choices (boob armour, exposed midriffs, impractically high heels) or just too much focus on the assets (bouncy boobies and that sort of stuff), but I don't lavish hate on a character simply because they're female.

I don't ship much at all outside of canon pairings (Yanqing/Yunli are pretty much pushed in this direction narratively in the game), and if HoYoVerse were to introduce a female character that's canonically into Kinich or Kinich is into her, I'd pull for her just so they can be on a team together.
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Just now... was that 'despair' I sensed in your voice?



this may be controversial of me to say but the hate and disdain for female characters (or just, ignoring them entirely) in favor of male characters is extremely fetishistic when done through the lens of strictly yaoi but idk if anyone is ready to unpack that yet

and let me be clear, i'm not talking about people who are male/masc that prefer mlm ships because they themselves are mlm
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lotta assumptions just from a comment about only pulling dudes.
not a woman hater, just don't personally prefer them
on wow, all my characters are dudes
in my rps, all my characters are dudes.
I prefer dudes, end of.

it's just disappointing how natlan has been handled, first with the lack of dark skin, then the lack of male characters, it's not even balanced, it's just blatantly 90% female.

there aren't a lot of live service games out there that have a balanced cast of characters. the ones that are all male are not to my taste (lads, lovebrush chronicles, tokyo debunker, etc). the only one I can think of right now is twisted wonderland and that game has its own set of problems.

i don't mind balanced casts, but a lot of games that started with a p good balance like genshin impact and reverse:1999 have gone in a predictable "let's just cater to the waifu whales" stance. it's just kinda boring for me.
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since it seems that people were taking it personally and/or being defensive, to be clear, my woman hating comment wasnā€™t directed at anyone on Pixel (that I know of, they donā€™t rp).

I even said that I assume most of the people that are here, handle it normally. If the shoe ainā€™t fitting, it ainā€™t about you. Not everything is.

Iā€™m referring more to a gamer group thatā€™s separate from the rp sphere specifically, a lot of them for example like going on and on about how some of the archons exc suck and should be killed cause there are too many women ones, wish Ayaka got deleted because we only need Ayato so sheā€™s unimportant and useless (I donā€™t even like Ayaka and it annoys me), want Nahida deleted so Baizhu can take her place, andā€¦.a few of them also despise Yelan for no other reason thatā€™s ever been said aside from ā€œtoo popular for a girl that is basically centered around having boobsā€.
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Aha ha, I am sorry, I was trying to keep the conversation going, but my lack of social skills reared their ugly head here.
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Dude, I love Raine and Mikleo.
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tbh the worst part about man-obsessed fandoms is that they always pick the most boring men to be obsessed with on god.

i don't go to genshin so i can't comment on that but i am directly talking about league of legends fans here. udyr is right there. he is canonically bisexual. he is hot. he is an old man. where's my old man yaoi. where is it. WHERE IS IT.

(do not get me started on k'sante and how the fandom completely ignores him.)

(i also don't want to create the content i want to read the content thank u if i have to create the content it's not going online because it's just for me)
last edit on Nov 23, 2024 20:21:43 GMT by illidan main

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