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Post by von on Sept 7, 2018 17:12:36 GMT
i am insecure of my rping.
i feel like my partners would inevitably be left dissatisfied if they plotted with me so I started to have a huge paranoia and started thinking like, "what if they dont like this? should I plot?" and ask myself that over and over again. That's why it feels like I just make a place for people to rp on, but I never do any rp.
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any pronouns
baby shark, doo doo doo doo doo doo...
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Post by forte on Sept 7, 2018 17:45:44 GMT
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...I studied the blade.
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Post by Felix Hugo Fraldarius on Sept 8, 2018 1:27:25 GMT
I keep telling myself things are slow because of school and because of uni, not because my game is dumb and I'm a terrible admin. Not sure it's working |
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Post by zero on Sept 8, 2018 2:27:38 GMT
I keep telling myself things are slow because of school and because of uni, not because my game is dumb and I'm a terrible admin. Not sure it's working I'm gonna say, these things ebb and flow, so stick it out. A friend runs a site, has done for a while. At first, it was fairly busy, then it went quiet, and now it's back to busy again. Just keep working on the site, advertising, and having fun. |
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Post by Kitten4u on Sept 8, 2018 2:39:29 GMT
I keep telling myself things are slow because of school and because of uni, not because my game is dumb and I'm a terrible admin. Not sure it's working I've been feeling this pretty hard, so I played MMOs with some of my members because they've been too tired to do any posting. It helped quite a bit. <3 |
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Post by pixie pie on Sept 8, 2018 2:40:37 GMT
I keep telling myself things are slow because of school and because of uni, not because my game is dumb and I'm a terrible admin. Not sure it's working I know it is hard but stick to it if you love it <3 I know it is hard to listen to reason though when those negative thoughts start to sink in. I've been there <3 |
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Emergency Food
Paimon is not food!
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Post by ✦ MAD on Sept 8, 2018 3:52:42 GMT
[nospaces] Felix Hugo Fraldarius I feel like in that same place as well. I feel bad because I'm the admin and I've been so busy as well. I feel like im not doing enough to liven things up... At the same time I can see a lot of people saying they seem to be busy as well. It must be that time of slow activity all around. |
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...I studied the blade.
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Post by Felix Hugo Fraldarius on Sept 8, 2018 5:34:50 GMT
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pool's closed
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Post by Phantasm on Sept 8, 2018 22:00:07 GMT
i feel a ridiculously obsessive need to tweak the site's skin because I feel people won't stay because it doesn't have certain images in certain places and stuff like that
i also feel bad because another site in my fandom is using the skin i really really want to use
damn u
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she / they
addicted to the complex archaeology of wounds
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Post by callista on Sept 9, 2018 5:45:44 GMT
1. i used to not mind advertising until a bunch of sites (usually animal or medieval rl sites on weird hosts) would force me to jump through hoops to link back and do dumb shit like log-in on a guest account or w/e.
2. tbh i'd end up deleting these ads from our site rather than dealing with this bs and i'm not even remotely sorry.
3. sometimes i would see apps so bad in the notifications thread that i would pretend to not see them until another staff member deals with it.
4. i'm always appearing offline on my staff account so i can multi-edit my 500 wip apps in peace, don't @ me.
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Post by Kitten4u on Sept 10, 2018 16:37:34 GMT
I just did my first ad spree in a long time and I feel kind of bad about it. Not that I did the ad spree, but that it had been a long time since I did one
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Post by Ginger on Sept 10, 2018 18:57:18 GMT
I might be a little pushy? Overly inclusive? I don't know how to explain, bend over backwards to say hello and ask what the person wishes to do with a character. I have this internal fear if I just left people alone they'll be scared of me or I show favoritism for older members? But THEN I worry maybe I'm talking too much, responding too fast, "desperate" I don't know... Just overall fear I kill sites when I join them, because I respond so fast and talk paragraphs of nonsense.
Lol sometimes I'll be sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for somebody else to respond, just so I don't seem "overly taking over".
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Open for Art Commissions
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Post by 「イオタ」 on Sept 11, 2018 0:46:36 GMT
I might be a little pushy? Overly inclusive? I don't know how to explain, bend over backwards to say hello and ask what the person wishes to do with a character. I have this internal fear if I just left people alone they'll be scared of me or I show favoritism for older members? But THEN I worry maybe I'm talking too much, responding too fast, "desperate" I don't know... Just overall fear I kill sites when I join them, because I respond so fast and talk paragraphs of nonsense. Lol sometimes I'll be sitting on the edge of my seat waiting for somebody else to respond, just so I don't seem "overly taking over".
This is so me. It's kind of scary because it's so me. |: Get off my brain wave, Ginger.  On another note: This, thankfully, has not happened to me for a while, but... When you have to hold someone's hand through the app, plotting, and threading process. (Please... please just think for yourself. I should not have to basically write your app for you or think your plots for other people in your stead.) |
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Post by Phantasm on Sept 11, 2018 7:31:27 GMT
I've gotten my users to use Pepe Ok Hand and I don't think they know it's a dank meme
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Post by Phantasm on Sept 13, 2018 6:17:12 GMT
My girlfriend, who's on my site, is mad cause someone else is doing a goat-person (her OC). Can't seem to convince her it's fine as long as there are some differences.
sigh
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