This'll be my last post on the matter, because it seems you're very firmly rooted in your argument. I just want to dispel some assumptions here.
The experience you have on 2-3 forums doesn't always equate to the truth across a much broader spectrum.
Nor do the ones you've sampled mean it's the true reflection of the community at large. The fact stands that these platforms exist, because the RL is large enough to allow multiple microcosms to exist within it. The animanga community itself is a microcosm. To try to say that we shouldn't bring change because we aren't exactly like these other communities is a very broad generalization of our own community itself.
I don't consider myself, nor most anyone here an "influential member" of the community. To say that is a grossly large overstatement, and you give far too much emphasis on this particular detail. There is no misinformation here. As most members aside from myself have experienced, there is a significant amount of sites, regardless of what percentage these sites are to the whole of the RL community pie, that are moving away from site-to-site advertising. This is a fact. Just because there is still a large number of sites that employ the old method, as
Kuroya has stated, it's much more grey than the black and white of "well they have a plugboard, so that must mean that they do site-to-site." It's a yes and no situation.
Being a pie slice of the whole does not invalidate the fact that the slice is, still by our animanga numbers in comparison, still part of the pie, and a hefty slice at that.
Yes the anime community is a fishbowl, I am not disagreeing there. It is aging. That is why I don't really get the idea of reclusing even more. People can like multiple things. People can like things without joining and monitoring a resource community for it.
Do you think Joe the Horse Farm RPer is ever going to leave his horse site to check out Animangads? Probably not. But maybe, just maybe, if he sees an ad for Space Dandy pop up while he is cleaning the imaginary stables he might think for the first time. Hmm? I used to love that show. What if there was more to RPing than owning a horse farm?
These communities aren't even that easy to find. I won't name names but I've helped a few people get here from elsewhere.
How is this making the community reclusive? How would you know? Have you tested this method out yet? You cannot tell the future. If anything, this is giving the community
more tools at their disposal and to give them
a choice to participate in the advertising rat race without having to feel pressured to append old traditions. If you still want to do site-to-site, that's a personal choice.
Your analogy doesn't discredit the ideas and concepts of a platform or hub. If Joe the Farmer doesn't want to step outside of his home turf, that means Joe is very comfortable with his membership already, and/or he likes how things are and will happily continue doing what he's been doing. And that's fine. If Joe is curious about the world, he will still have the opportunity to discover these community(ies). And if Joe wants a piece of that pie, Joe will contribute.
The fact that you've mentioned about spreading this resource site by word of mouth is already another way to advertise without resorting to site-to-site advertising. I could tell Joe and that would be great! Or Joe might stumble across a site's affiliates section and see resource links. It's up to Joe to take advantage of these resources. And if he doesn't, I don't know what to say to you. That's Joe's business, and not mine.
This isn't making the community exclusive, hidden, some sort of VIP social club for the "influential" members of the community. This is meant to be a tool aimed to help everyone learn, if they are willing. It is appending to the community, not putting it under lock and key.