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Post a Random Thought written Sept 12, 2018 22:25:51 GMT
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Sept 12, 2018 19:27:47 GMT said:
Are relationships suppose to be up/down? Like he'll get upset and push me away but afterwards he calms and it goes back to normal. I don't know how to do this. lmao
Yes. 100% YES. I cannot tell you how great it is to have situations resolve quickly. I think a big misconception behind people (Not you but like.. experience with people and others in their relationships) is that they think obstacles are the sightseers to the end of everything - or that one mistake is completely unforgivable. It's totally okay to fight and trust me.. you'll fight a lot in a long term relationship. It's not that one of you is wrong, and it's not that one of you is right. It's that you're both human and stress is part of life. You'll have disagreements and that's A OKAY. But talking through them is important. He calms down? Great. Use the chance to discuss what happened or even allow things to simmer if it's not important. With that being said, don't take that as "If you don't cool down as fast, it's not good" - because that's wrong too. The cool thing about being human too is that you have your own special traits that make you .. *you*. Not everyone cools down quick. When you have these moments, take your own time to settle your own thoughts and not his. When you feel things are okay for you, approach them. 

Point being like.. it's totally normal ok. Stay amazing.
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Help creating/tweaking Mechanical Systems? [Resolved] written Sept 12, 2018 22:19:50 GMT
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Sept 11, 2018 19:09:28 GMT said:

I'm going to sketch up a simple example system here. Feel free to use it or modify it as you like.
I just wanna say this system made me squirm with how beautiful it was. Like.. that was a GREAT example of handling plot alongside catering competitive playstyle. I don't normally impede to comment on things but like.. I think your post is a great reference tool for this thread.