omg, i love the name change. LIKE STOP IT WEEB, YOU'RE MAKING ME WEEB OUT. ( hahaha please laugh at me )
I think finding a premade skin that you like first before waiting for a commission might be the best thing that you can do. While it's nice to have a skin all of your own, it would theoretically take longer than you'd like it to. and on the topic of aesthetic.
....if you wanna drop some pics of aesthetics that inspire you for the site....i would really like it.
once i have a better idea of your vision of the zeros and the world, i might be able to offer some suggestions and the like. so don't feel bad if you can't figure things out right away! sometimes it takes some time and rediting to get things the way that you want it. keep it up!!