I lean towards the idea of simply opening a dialogue with your RP partners โ asking them how they feel about your current threads, maybe donโt say โI feel like Iโm just dragging you alongโ at first and instead โSo, what do you think about how our threads are going?โ and then tell them about how you feel here. Iโm someone who wouldnโt find such an interaction awkward, though I donโt speak for everyone โ but since youโre mulling this over, I feel like itโs worth trying to ask, yโknow?
Maybe youโre reading these signals wrong but also ask yourself, in cases where you are, would you still want to continue the RP/thread(s) in question?
As porsef said, you canโt stop people from lying. It isnโt your sole responsibility to make up for someone elseโs (especially a strangerโs) lack of communication skills or difficulty in expressing their needs, so please put an emphasis on how you feel and what you want here. Itโs worth taking some time to think about all of this, and yeah, itโs not a bad thing to drop threads or sites if youโre not feeling it anymore, despite whatever cool things have happened. You could always take a break too?
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