harrow, we're also on the smaller side of the panfan community, but lovelorn is a "typical" isekai-style fantasy animated panfandom with a flexible soulmate mechanic (you can have one-sided soulmates or multiple soulmates, an option to icly reject the soulmate system or choose your own soulmate, the ability to oocly ignore the system entirely if you finangle it right, and you're definitely welcome to pick platonic, familial, or even antagonistic soulmates if you'd rather not go for a romantic soulmate) and optional regional story arcs to participate in to open up more location areas to play in.

we're also 18+, hosted on jcink premium with a 3-3-3 rating, and generally pretty lax about what we allow (we generally try to trust our members in regards to appropriately handling ~problematic content~, we allow established members to make duplicates of taken canons or fandom ocs via shop purchase, and there's plenty of important canon roles and such open). our activity standards aren't too bad at needing one non-comms post per character per month to be considered active + needing one extra non-comms ic post on each previous character to app the next one, and the app requirements are super easy too, with the bulk of them being a good powers section + a quick shipper portion, so i think that should be fine.

we are a smaller site, so y'know, you might have to be a little more proactive about reaching out for plots than you might on a larger site + be aware that we're a little more prone to slow periods and such, but i also know our scaramouche would be excited for either nahida or venti (as would i, as dainsleif's rper who enjoys letting him squint loudly at the gods), so you can definitely do well if you build things right. we're also a small staff team (it's just me + my coadmin and we both work full-time), which means it takes us a little longer to do stuff but we do still put out updates when we can (like i'm working on adding a freeform portion for us to add as an option for our app for people who don't like shippers and my coadmin's tinkering with a questing system we're planning on debuting in the future) and i try to hit apps reasonably quickly, at least for new members. tl;dr we are not a gigantic site, so you do have to plan accordingly with who you make + where you put them, but we've been around since april 2022 publicly and september 2021 semi-privately, and we have absolutely no plans of going anywhere any time soon when we have so many stories left to tell.

if this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to drop on in, and if not, i wish you luck with getting back into things!