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Post a Random Thought written Jan 8, 2019 21:15:36 GMT via mobile
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Jan 8, 2019 21:09:45 GMT said:


Not sure how i wound up soending my first 1.5hrs awake on my day off faeming inkays for one with an acceptable nature but i'm like 7 inkays deep and only one is acceptable but not ideal




NUMBER 8 WAS A HIT BABY WE GOTS THE INKAY
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2019 RESOLUTIONS written Jan 6, 2019 23:57:57 GMT
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>> Finish working on R//D
>> Less Soda more juice and water no caffeine
>> Devote more time to art and craft and maybe even pick one to sell or something, maybe start cocheting
>> Write non rp things more, just get it out there
>> Do a drawing or doodle every couple of nights, make it a habit!
>> Get your health insurance dealt with so you can get healthy enough to do the next level
>> work out. be that chick. you will be buff you did it once you can do it again
>> Assert yourself more
>> Tell people the nice things you think about them more because you should? They may need to hear it and you just don't know it.

>> This goes for everyone else too, take it easy on yourself if you don't meet any of these because things take time. Making changes in yourself and your routine aren't as easy as they seem and take effort and dedication and self discipline to do. You can do it, you just won't be perfect at it at first so don't et yourself stop all together take it easy when you have to and don't when you don't!

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Post a Random Thought written Jan 1, 2019 23:43:02 GMT via mobile
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Jan 1, 2019 22:37:38 GMT said:
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Jan 1, 2019 20:49:51 GMT said:
yessssssss preach !!!! this is a moooood !
discord is like.....80% of the community activity and a majority of plotting opportunities - i've seen people post screenshots of their discord chats here from their sites. imagine being a member of that site, who feels uncomfortable in the chat for whatever reason, seeing that is disheartening. it feels like you aren't a part of it anymore and missing out. to other members it might even feel like you aren't there most of the time, so it's not as simple as that.

thats not to say sites shouldn't have them, it's all personal choice and experience. discords are the heart of a community in rps that have them - to most people, they make everything so much easier. you lose so much by not being a part of them - by all means have them, it's a great tool for communication, but also not very transparent.

member directories are amazing - but in my experience, the member i was avoiding wasn't on the directory. they had no character or anything. so idk maybe if a user is on the discord server for like, a few weeks w/o site activity, maybe kick them? seems rude tho.


I feel you. I'm just not great at jumping into communities becayse the whole "hi i' here how are you" etc etc stuff isnt my thing i just kind pop up here and there and havent done VC in so long i get so nervous i chicken out within 2 minutes (sorry i tried) but i feel like i end up ostrisizing myself to a degree by not engaging in some manner. Its not that i dont wanna talk its just that i have a hard time getting into it despite just wanting to sit in the middle of the site and flail around a sign that says plot with me.

I like chatting ON the board though, it feels a lot more lax and you cant get lost but no one does it any more :c

You'll find a home eventually tho. Maybe if enough people try for more options than discord itll happen one day