be indulgent, tbh. don't write or suggest things you aren't excited for, because you're only wasting their time (& yours). a 'no' is infinitely better than a halfhearted 'yes' + otherwise getting/giving the run around

oh. & if you were excited for it at first, but got a few posts in & decided it wasn't heat, that's okay too. but do be sure to let them know so you don't leave them on read. 'cause it sucks to see someone posting for everyone else but not you :/