i played the admin who bends over backwards too many times. still prob will in any future project. the pains of being a people pleaser fr.
worth it in small doses but too much coddling and people start feeling too privileged in a bad way. ie. you owe them all your time and attention, they want to be involved in most staff decisions when they don't need to be. had to deal with so many fits over stupid, trivial things bc of it.
i think there is def a balance to it ( which i haven't figured out yet ). but yeah.
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