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Weird q- i'm not exactly sure if this qualifies its own thread or what, but i don't want to bother anyone so I'm putting it here:

are forums dying?

They seem consistently harder to find than they used to be, and look like they're getting phased out w/ more accessible options such as discord.

idk, just want your ¢2 i suppose
i don't think so, honestly. this question comes up like, every year for a decade and the answer is always the same. the audience of discord and forum rps are different, what people value and such are too. yes, there are people who are leaving because they're tired of it, but there are also sites for those who are just growing up with it too. thing is, you don't often see the latter since places like pixel are usually early-20s-people-echo-chamber-simulator where the sites that show up here reflect that.

so yeah, finding sites is all about where you look. there's no shortage of them but there sure is a hella lack of advertising. even sites with large bases fail that at times, but affiliate hopping, looking at advertising sections of sites etc might be way more helpful than just here.
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My wife makes really awesome graphics, but she would always complain about how fuzzy they looked.

She's been making icons for like 10 years.

She only just found out about the 'sharpen' tool. Now she realises why all her icons looked a little fuzzy to her.
this is sorta unrelated but i really miss the whole icon hype we had back in the day where people would make and share them, offer to make them for others etc.
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All I have learned today is damn, getting a character up from level one to 60 on Genshin is rough. >...> I legit have all the ascension materials I need right now for Diluc, but I am so mora desperate... Like I can get the level up materials decently easy, but I have learned mora is harder to get than I thought. ;D
wait til you get to grind 60 to 80. kills me every time to pour a couple millions of mora onto new characters that i don't wanna pull anymore.
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before coding forum skin: responsive design and cross-browser compatibility are important!!!
after coding forum skin: responsive design and cross-browser compatibility are blights upon society, and should be outlawed
but responsive skins are super easy if you just take like 10 min to set up media queries/viewport. they're super easy to do, too.
idk, i code a ton for my job and never felt it was a chore. 
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If any y'all need help, I'm AR8 and got all kinds of dumb powered up dudes and five stars. Just let me know! I play genshin religiously at this point and got hard pity for firework girl coming up if I decide to pull so I can join and yeet whatever bosses you need help with!! Come with us and suffer in Inazuma.
q: how do yall have TIME to play genshin tho

gen it feels like it takes an hr to do anything
funny cause i've been going through a massive content draught til inazuma was released. if you've been playing it long enough, even in  short bursts, you hit a point where every area is 95%+ explored, no quests, story missions, hangouts left to do so it becomes the half-an-hour cycle described. there's abyss that's interesting and takes longer but that's every two weeks too.
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I have a lot of characters but no 5 stars. I have as of current, not including what you get through story: Xinyan, Razor, Fischl, Sucrose, Beidou, Yanfei and Bennett. I am happy with what I got though! Either way, seriously, I’m willing to help anyone so just lemme know! ^-^ I just like murdering I guess. XDDD
If any y'all need help, I'm AR8 and got all kinds of dumb powered up dudes and five stars. Just let me know! I play genshin religiously at this point and got hard pity for firework girl coming up if I decide to pull so I can join and yeet whatever bosses you need help with!! Come with us and suffer in Inazuma.
I'll add onto this comment chain but WR7 here and I'm also down for helping out whenever! I got a bunch of resin stacked too so if anyone just wants to do domain runs, bosses etc, I'm free~

Also you going for Yoimiya over Baal? Everyone around me is super into Baal so I think you're the first one I've seen say that!
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i think best way to learn coding is by making a skin tbh. it forces you to think big and if something breaks, you actually have to inspect what each positioning element does.

bonus points for it teaching mobile friendliness too.
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No thats a one off LOL wtf

How do they have ur twitter...
i was about to say the same thing like these mods fucking super pro hackers? like maybe they could have used your email if you signed up and its the same email? 

dodge. 

welcome back?? lmaoooo

you can connect your twitter etc to your discord now. so if had that, it'd be quite easy to find their twitter/steam/twitch/whathaveyou tbh. i've seen plenty of people do it though i'd steer away from it myself.
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i used to staff a lot but honestly, i don't like hardcaps. soft caps to prevent people from going overboard first and foremost? yeah. but i find it extremely humbling someone is enjoying what i created enough for inspiration to strike them, for them to write more on it, i think it is such a joy that they not only stick around but want to spread it too. that said, do i not get overwhelmed? yeah, but that's why having a good staff team is important. like it's okay to chill and not think i have to micromanage people but just trust that my team will make sure things work well. only if i think my mods will slack off or that they'll try to abuse the systems i feel burdened. cause with the right people, staffing is like "being a member with additional responsibilities" than "authoritative figure that has to do stuff for others". although it is hard to find those people, i feel it's completely possible and the advantages of giving people some of the workload is massive.

but as i said, i just like my sites to be places for fun, and i love members being able to interact with the plot with their characters - new or old.
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so weird, i kept getting the data breach message whenever i zoomed in on mobile :thonk:

this is the error i got even though i don’t have an account. owo
Oooo - I don't really know if that's something from Hellmouth or cause of Hellmouth (though I can say the site as a whole does look funky on mobile cause it's not that compatible).

I've gotten a message like that before from google via email and just updated some of my passwords through all of my sites. I read through these threads to get info about them. [here] and [here] cause trying to sum it up would be long and I'm not a techy person LOL XD

edit: basically i got the same message before in the past when i tried to view a site that i didn't have an account on. google was just telling me there was a "breach" and to change all my passwords since i basically reuse the same passwords. i updated a few and deleted a bunch of old ones and it went away.

i'll also add that it might be jcink itself that chrome is warning about, especially if you have multiple accounts on different sites. otherwise, it makes no sense to warn on a site you haven't entered anything yet. so it might not be hellmouth at all there.
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I can talk about this but I took a lot of breaks from RP. I never once thought I would come back to it when I did it though, I just left my sites completely and said "It''s okay, I am not feeling it and I don't know when or if I ever will". Like, nothing caught my interest and I was just not really into the whole drama or writing aspect, didn't really feel like I could produce the high quality stuff I used to again and life was extremely hectic with my dissertation.

But, after like nearly two years, I did come back to it. I joined a site on a whim and ended up with such a craving. Easily one of my favourite places to write in right now, and I love the friends I've made and plots we've established, but I don't think I could do that if I hadn't taken that break, thinking it was retirement for good.

Even if you don't come back though... it's okay. A lot of my friends never came back into but ended up finding that gap with different hobbies and interests or they chose to try to publish novels than rp, but that's okay too. Whatever makes you happy is what you should aim for in my opinion.

That said, I am also a "quality first" sort of RP'er and I started like, 13 years ago. I love to write beautiful posts and also challenge myself but the way I keep up with the community is finding one or two people and exchanging ideas, threads, prompts, music etc to keep it relevant. It then spreads onto others as they hear about your characters/your friendship and all. That said, I get it can be hard, but if there's nything you were looking forward to, maybe that could be it?

I also love to read fiction before I start writing or plotting so that I can get inspired and have an urge to write myself. I think my prose is stronger than before because I have a bigger interest in it, despite the age factor, but I really squeeze reading during my commute, exchange small ideas when I'm at work or sak people for a fast paced thread where we don't care about quality but post every day to loosen up our writing and furthur the plot. Because things happening can be interesting sometimes.

But again, I think it's okay if it doesn't work out either. Maybe RP doesn't have a place in your life right now, maybe it will again in an indefinite future, maybe it will remain as a past or private thing for you. None of those are bad in my opinion and if you need time to figure it out, that's that. As Clear said, it will help you find what you like out of RP. Is it the writing? The challenge? The people? What draws you back in it?
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tfw it is the middle of the night and you want to talk. but people are busy and/or sleeping.
Me, all the time, as my sleep schedule is terrible or the person I want to talk to is in a completely radically different timezone.


god as a european, timezones are my worst nightmare. no ones ever awake when i am : (