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this is half 'just because i'm curious' and half because i have a want ad idea brewing in my mind i've been wanting to toss out (miserable arranged political marriage, chef's kiss) -- but when it comes to writing (and taking!) want ads, which types tend to interest you the most/tend to get the most traction, if you're the one posting them?

i don't actually write a ton of want ads (real), so i'm curious; i know some people like to create whole, specific characters for people to pick up, with a defined/grounded backstory and personality & established role to play, and some people like to put out softer ads that err on the side of interest checks: more vague ideas that could be filled by both a new or pre-existing character, but provide a little less of a specific springboard like the former. which kind of sauce do you prefer/do you notice that other people tend to prefer?

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personally, when i'm looking to take want ads, i tend to gravitate towards the ads that 1) are pitching a plot, dynamic, or direction that genuinely interests me to play out and 2) have a very strong vibe that the requester is very strongly interested + enthusiastic about getting the plot in play..... which, as you might imagine, tends to see me favoring more detailed requests than more open-ended ones.

(don't get me wrong, there's other stuff that can make a want ad more attractive to me, like if there's other potential plotting opportunities for me to step into or if the requester seems to be compatible with me for similar rp preferences for stuff like posting speed or ooc engagement, but like... the plot and enthusiasm are the main pitches for that ad for me, there's almost no chance i take the ad if it just doesn't seem interesting for me to want to play out or if i'm feeling like i'm the only one hyped for the ad i'm about to be taking)

but i also say that as someone who doesn't get as many character ideas as i used to and who doesn't have a whole lot of rp friends that i can give the kinds of "big investment plots" to. (and my own luck with posting those ads myself is typically abysmal.) so. take that with that grain of salt.

(i also personally used to say open-ended want ads were great ways for me to pick up extra plotting opportunities + connections for a character idea i already had and a part of me does still believe that... but in all honesty, i don't know if i ever actually did use this more than a couple of times back when i was making characters more freely, so like.... was it me being more hopeful about myself, is it me having largely forgotten a time when i was playing original characters as opposed to canons, do i want to use my anecdotal musings out in wider practice, instructions unclear, character app was submitted to the toaster.)

edit to add: i guess i'm also a weirdo in that i typically go for romantic requests over anything else, but i mean, i guess that makes sense too since romance ads tend to be the ones with those more solid concepts of plot + direction that i specifically seek out for ads. i've done other kinds of requests before and it's been all right (i raise a glass to one of my best times on a site being me picking up an ad for someone's kid + then ending up making the baby mama too) but honestly these days i check then more as a formality than with any real intent to take one unless it's involving canon characters, just because i've had too many bad experiences for taking the request and then getting largely sidelined by the requester or struggling to get any kind of meaningful direction going for my character in turn.



in all honesty though, if you're really wanting to hedge your bets about getting a want ad taken... i will skip past the usual rpc advice of "just ask a friend to take it lmao" and instead give the advice to look at what want ads actually are being taken on the site and what the site culture is around want ads in general, since those two things are going to be your biggest factors.

if the site just doesn't have the culture of taking want ads, it probably won't matter all that much how you pitch it, because the members just don't really take them; conversely, if the culture is really good about taking them, either style will likely have a decent chance of getting picked up. or if the site is somewhere in the middle, where one kind of want ad tends to get picked up more often than the other, you're probably going to have better luck following that trend than straying from it.

(anecdotally though, i think the more open-ended want ads generally tend to get picked up more often than the more specific ones, but on the flip side of that, i also kind of get the impression a lot of those more open-ended want ads tend to be surface-level box-checking than they are solid plots to consistently keep a character active in the long-term especially the mega loose ones like "avengers-inspired friend group" or "same-series fc coworkers" or "fellow canonmates wanted".)
last edit on Sept 23, 2024 3:17:27 GMT by Kuroya

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what...do you do you notice that other people tend to prefer?



really depends on how niche/self-indulgent the wanted ad is, from my experience as someone who posts niche/self-indulgent wanted ads all the time and doesn't get many bites. like i think most people are cool with arranged marriage plots...i see them all the time, so i assume they're popular. fewer might want to write genuine animosity and shit-talking. i don't see that often.

the character connected to the wanted also matters a ton, if you're pitching a 3-way romance and seeking 2 characters to fight over yours you might not get many hits if you're not playing an archetype/using a fc the site finds attractive.


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i don't really take wanteds O_o. i do like creeping on them, but normally when i join a site i have a strong idea of what i want to do and it feels weird to just jam that into a box someone else has set up. unless of course it's super open-ended. then maybe. but probably not 
last edit on Sept 22, 2024 3:07:22 GMT by ace.
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Depends. 

Given the nature of RP and how not all people stay involved in a site or a story, for me, I think its important that the ad feels flexible enough that I can create some relevance and importance beyond the connection of the wanted ad, so that it doesn't feel like I need to toss a character because the other person left.

I prefer things that range from loose wanted to general concept - and that is to say something like a general idea of personality, gender, etc is fine -- but I don't like feeling like the other person wrote my app with details. 

I tend to see family roles get snatched up, friend groups, and general group wanted. My most successful wanted ads are usually family. 



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from my experience, family wanted ads tend to be the most popular — swiftly followed by ship ads. both of these make sense, IMO, people like loose-y ads that give them easy connections with an immediate backstory hook, and shipping is really really popular in rp circles. if the ad has matching fcs (i.e. say lumine to someone's aether jenshin impact; blade to someone's DH hsr), it'll likely get picked up quickly too.

i feel like ace is also legit tho re: the point of "it depends on the character" and ill add that maybe the rp-er too; if the character is popular, well-beloved, or the fc is hot — yeah, people are gonna bite lbr LMFAO. similarly, if the rp-er is big in the community, also a solid chance that their ads will get a ton of attention.

for me, i tend to gravitate toward taking wanted ads that present rlly strong and complicated dynamics. i'm very vocally a pretentious tragedy liker, and that shows in a lot of ads i tend to take — antagonistic, difficult, broken relationships, unresolved histories, what have you. i tend to heavily prefer ads with detailed ideas / asks too, since they help me understand what is wanted from a character and what the plot i may be getting into looks like. if the ad/rp-er isn't able to give that kinda detail, it'll make things (for me) a bit more difficult in configuring my character and what i'd wanna do with them. if it's a ship ad, it has to be something that is Very Specifically In The Niche I Like(TM) of "tragic, sad, unresolved, bitter, complicated, or all of the above".

not necessarily an answer to the question but is tangentially related imo: i think that the "after" portion of taking a wanted ad is extremely pivotal too. like, if you (the ad maker) aren't able to plot with, involve, or help integrate the person who took your ad without informing in advance that they'll need to do shit on their own (i tend to preface like 90% of my ads with a "i encourage player agency, start shit without me pls" for this reason), it'll be a damn difficult to maintain the ad. i know that one of my favorite "taking wanted ads" experiences was taking someone's family ad and them going out of their way to involve me in all the current happenings of the family, offering threads, and other members of their family (or the team surrounding it) jumping to plot. genuinely did SO much for my experience writing that character and being in that site.

similarly, i think that ad-takers also should make efforts to reach out to, and plot with, the people they took an ad from after apping in the character too, god only knows ive seen so many times people take ads specifically catered for someone's character only for the ad to just never plot with that character and turn to plot with other people instead. (also cel being a tired and jaded rp-er thats seen, heard, or experienced enough rp drama disclaimer note: please please please only take ads from rp-ers you respect and/or are willing to plot and write with; i've seen this happen enough times that i really cannot grasp the concept of taking an ad with someone you actively dislike, think lowly of, or etc. it just feels like alchemy for longterm resentment, dissatisfaction, and a waste of everyone's time)
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i see a lot of support for family ads, and i have to agree. i see these get snapped up the most often. my family ads are picked up more often than not, and they tend to be the some of the first ones i look at while joining a site. i would also say that group ads tend to do well, though. when it has a central theme with a hint of intrigue - a group of assassins or thieves, a corrupt company with a black ops squad, i find people can be quick to throw their hat into the ring to get in on the big "secret" plots.

speaking personally, if there's an air of mystery, i find myself interested more often than not.
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this is half 'just because i'm curious' and half because i have a want ad idea brewing in my mind i've been wanting to toss out (miserable arranged political marriage, chef's kiss) -- but when it comes to writing (and taking!) want ads, which types tend to interest you the most/tend to get the most traction, if you're the one posting them?

i don't actually write a ton of want ads (real), so i'm curious; i know some people like to create whole, specific characters for people to pick up, with a defined/grounded backstory and personality & established role to play, and some people like to put out softer ads that err on the side of interest checks: more vague ideas that could be filled by both a new or pre-existing character, but provide a little less of a specific springboard like the former. which kind of sauce do you prefer/do you notice that other people tend to prefer?



so as someone whose currently most enduring character was a fill for two different want ads at once: yeah, I might have thoughts on this

when writing a want ad: my general pitch consists of some backstory for the character, specifically how they know my existing oc (the EOC), what their relationship is like with EOC, and some potential plot hooks that the want ad taker (the WAT) can pick up on. I like to strike a balance between "no direction whatsoever" and "practically pre-written app", because it's what I personally prefer, so I might suggest some directions the want could take but without them being a requirement. For instance, for an "arranged marriage" want that did end up getting taken, I specified that the dynamic would be toxic/hostile at first, but could eventually evolve into anything from "they break up and it's a huge scandal" to "they fall in love for real" to "orientation incompatible but they remain close friends" and left it up to the WAT which they'd prefer, because I'm genuinely happy to write any of those plots if they end up shaping up that way. I tend not to specify names, genders, face claims, etc. unless it's absolutely necessary (like "must be widely assumed to be cishet male" for my arranged marriage want), just because some people get weirdly territorial over faces and the like. I don't generally write shipping or parent/child plots, so most of my pitches are for some kind of friendship dynamic (allowing for other people's EOCs to slot in) or for sibling groups.

when taking a want ad: I go for ads that are of the same style as I like to write, which is to say, friend group/sibling dynamics where the want isn't a complete blank slate but also leaves room for the writer to put their own touches on the character. Which is to say, DO give me the "avengers inspired friend group" or "corrupt squad of assassin thief black ops" (please, let me pretend to have the ride or dies I never got in real life) but I've slowly come to place increasing importance on whether I vibe with the other writer(s). I like to kick in my writing partners' DMs/mentions with backstory workshop, silly headcanons, and off-screen vignettes, for instance, and if that's not how a person likes to engage with their fellow rpers, it's probably best I know that as soon as possible so I don't bother reading any of their want ads, regardless of how appealing they seem to be on the surface.

what other people seem to prefer: I notice that group ads tend to go faster than single ads, probably in large part because you get a ready-made group of people to plot with, as opposed to having your character's backstory only involve one other character and then have to go actively hunting for hooks with the other members. As far as single ads go, shipping ads seem to be the most taken, especially if you have a forum community that likes to pair people off/write people in pre-existing pairs. Beyond that, I haven't paid attention to whether open-ended or more detailed ads get taken more often.
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hi yes hello queen of wanted ads here.

i apparently write self-indulgent and hyperspecific wanted ads so mine never get taken. i have a theory that the vaguer the wanted ad, the more likely it's going to be that it gets picked up. i on the other hand, adore taking the plots that you can tell are a little specific or niche, but the person really wants to do. i love getting to be apart of other people's stories, so almost always will have at least one wanted ad on every site i go.
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I like wanted ads, but I prefer ones that leave room for me to make the character, but are also more about the plot than the dynamic.

If you're just looking for a big brother character who often fights with his younger sibling but is there when you need him, eh, pass.

If you want a big brother who often fights with his younger sibling but realises something is wrong and he has to help his younger sibling through a crisis they're trying to hide from him, then I'm game.

If the want ad is too specific, it feels like I'm writing someone else's character, in which case I can be amenable if you write the entire profile application too so I only have to write posts for you.
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