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Hey all!

A few months ago I chose to leave the rp site I'd been at for 2-3 years (closer to 8 if you include its predecessors) due to personal reasons. Since leaving, I'm not quite ready to join another place yet but I have slowly been browsing just to get a sense of what's available. I've mainly been using affiliates, but I've noticed that across different sites they're sometimes a little out of date and not as reliable as my (admittedly probably rose tinted) memory seems to remember them being back in 2016 when I last properly did a site search.

SO I was wondering where people tend to go to look for sites nowadays. Obviously Pixel has a very good resource in the form of its affiliate section and interest checks and I've also seen that there are some discord groups that host links to forums and other sites. Are there any other methods I'm missing or maybe might not be aware of because I've been out of the pool for a while? What are your favourite places to check?

In short, where do you find your rp? :)
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Now, for the real reason I waded into this conversation… Agave and bats. I haven’t heard of this before, and I suspect a lot of vegans may be ignorant to it. When I googled, I only found stuff on it being used for tequila, which I don’t generally drink. Is agave syrup what they use to make tequila? I wondered if you had any articles on this or a source specifically on agave syrup that I can educate myself on. I don’t currently use it in my cooking as I don’t often bake but have used it in the past. If it’s genuinely harmful to bats, I think I can easily switch to maple syrup or another alternative to honey, so very keen to learn more. I love bats and have long considered them a favourite of mine so don’t want to harm them.
since i don't rly wanna debate veganism n such, since it sounds exhausting for both of us (though i do think your points are well-articulated), i am gonna provide the first result i got on google. basically, blue agave does make agave syrup. the best way is to look for bat-friendly agave for tequila-- which uses sustainable farming practices and doesn't harvest all the agave. idk if there's the same for syrup.

i use honey daily in my tea, and was using agave for a bit because it actually congealed less often. but i've switched to honey n vodka, pretty much. if you want an even easier tea sweetener alternative, simple syrup or sugar does just fine.

also gonna note that i avoid wool for sensory reasons. BAD CLOTH EVIL CLOTH FEELS LIKE AWFUL. pls give me cotton.



Yeah, no sweat at all. I mainly responded coz I was curious about the bats, as I’d not heard about that before, but I did want to address some of the other points as well. Veganism debates online get unpleasant quickly and it’s not fun 😅. Thank you for the link!
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honestly there's a lot about veganism that doesn't sit right with me- and this is one of those things. the black and white "no animal products, no matter what" is not only like. not feasible for a majority of people, but also a lot of things that are geared towards vegans are like. comically bad for the environment or have a reputation for having abusive labor practices. the one that really gets me are the clothing materials. like "vegan" leather is comically bad for the environment, and whether we like it or not, sheep literally have to be sheared. oftentimes animal hides or pelts are significantly higher quality (leather, wool, etc) even last a lot longer than the synthetic stuff. 

buy leather and wool secondhand if it makes you feel better! but honestly i feel like it's more ethical to do things like you're doing! eating eggs from someone who you know takes good care of her pets is far more ethical than buying say, a vegan leather purse that inevitably ends up in a landfill in 2 years bc it's garbage and broke easily.

i have A Lot of thoughts about veganism as someone who was plantbased at one point in their lives. sometimes i think about giving it another shot (i fucked up last time and made myself very sick bc i was a stupid 19 year old) but i dunno man. i'd miss cheese.
I've considered cutting back on meat products for health reasons and literally nothing else. veganism is often really uh. how do i put this. it's the liberalism of ethics. it's about feeling good, not doing good. you can definitely tell when these people suggest agave over honey. agave farming is literally driving species of bats extinct, while honey is generally not as exploitative as you'd think it would be. there is no ethical way to eat in our society, given the exploitation of immigrant work for our fruit and vegetables, and also the environmental damage of mass-farming.

and like, living in a rural area has also given me perspective, too. our capitalist food practices are incorrect, yes, but the problem isn't that we eat animals. the problem is the environmental damage caused by mass farming. we need alternatives that are better for the environment. plant-based isn't gonna save the planet.



There’s some interesting points here and I’d like to offer my view as someone who’s been vegan for thirteen years. Not to try and convert anyone or create any arguments around what’s right or wrong, just to clarify at least my view point on it. I always feel a bit anxious when publically talking about it because it can draw strong feelings and harsh debate, so I want to be clear that everyone’s ethics and opinions are their own, and these are just mine.

First, chicken farming. I hear a lot of people suggest that eating eggs that were from chickens they raised themselves would be okay. I would definitely consider this more ethical than getting them from a mass produced farm would be. It just wouldn’t be vegan because veganism doesn’t promote using animals for what they can do for us, marking that as exploitation. However I’d have a few questions around what happens to the hens if they no longer lay (do they get killed?) and where you got the hens from in the first place. For me, the worst part of the egg industry is how they breed and produce egg laying hens, not the consumption of eggs. Male chicks produced during this process are considered waste and treated horrifically, so unless my hens were rescues, I wouldn’t consider purchasing hens to lay eggs as a good alternative. It’s the same issue with dairy and what happens to male dairy calves and male chickens was one of the biggest factors that switched me from veggie to vegan, one that often gets overlooked by non-vegans.

Plastic vs animal is something I’ve considered before and is something I’ve found to generally be a major trolley problem with veganism when it comes to clothing. Do I kill one animal now for my boots or do I indirectly harm a lot more later by wearing plastic? I’ve yet to come to a satisfactory conclusion on it for leather, but there are some plant based leathers that are being produced that might offer a third route. Currently they’re a bit expensive. On wool, I did look at second hand wool to see if that was viable, but I found most wool I can afford is a blend of plastic and wool, which felt a bit like pushing my trolley down one set of tracks then reversing it to roll down the other side too for good measure. As a result, I still avoid wool at the moment.

I do think you’re right that a lot of online veganism that you see on TikTok or YouTube is posturing. However I think a lot of us are people with good intentions who really just don’t want cause harm to animals. Unfortunately this can go too far and as in all groups, people interpret philosophy in different ways. I’ve seen people argue for feeding cats a vegan diet supplemented by taurine, because they can’t justify harming animals to feed them a meat diet. This is one situation where good intentions are harmful, because cats are obligate carnivores requiring meat and they cannot digest plant based taurine well. Going wrong here can severely harm a cat as taurine is critical for their neurological function. I consider that unethical. So for me it’s more about avoiding harm where possible, avoiding exploitation where possible, and doing my best not to harm other living beings just to live. For me, that doesn’t include hurting my cat with a bad diet. So it’s best not to paint all vegans in the same brush because it’s a pretty diverse group.

Now, for the real reason I waded into this conversation… Agave and bats. I haven’t heard of this before, and I suspect a lot of vegans may be ignorant to it. When I googled, I only found stuff on it being used for tequila, which I don’t generally drink. Is agave syrup what they use to make tequila? I wondered if you had any articles on this or a source specifically on agave syrup that I can educate myself on. I don’t currently use it in my cooking as I don’t often bake but have used it in the past. If it’s genuinely harmful to bats, I think I can easily switch to maple syrup or another alternative to honey, so very keen to learn more. I love bats and have long considered them a favourite of mine so don’t want to harm them.
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yeah! i guess i just don’t know if it was “normal” that’s why i wondered if it was a thing. Like how i thought my old hs classmates who got pregnant as soon as college hits just hate good decision. I didnt realize people were actually so horny it drives them to do those stuffs. I didnt know people feel tingles when they look at someone they are attracted to physically…. I thought you just turn that on!! And i waited for it… and it never happened and never will ☺️ tho who knows mebbe im demi tho thats still in the ace spectrum
Frankly, I've never understood it either. The very idea that you could just...look at someone and decide, "Oh yeah, I desire to enter into sexual relations with this person" just...



So I realised pretty early on I was just asexual. \o/
I feel this so hard.
When I was in my teens, I became abruptly aware that everyone else was having these thoughts, and because I didn’t learn about asexuality until I was eighteen, I used to try and force myself to develop crushes by identifying a person who I thought looked nice and forcing myself to think about them a lot. Because clearly that’s how it worked.

Obviously it did not work out and it was a major relief when I learnt there was a whole community that actually just… doesn’t feel these things. 

Do you guys find it hard to rp sexual attraction or do you find it easier when imagining feelings for your characters? 
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Seeing your last few posts, I can't help but note you seem to be vagueposting about someone or a group of someone's. Is it possible for you to take a simple step back? Your mental health seems to be on the decline ever since you opened your site.
+1. there's an old adage about TTRPGs that I think we all need to apply to everything: No RP is better than Bad RP.

The more I apply it, the more I see its truth.

I really like that adage. It's not something I've come across before, as I've not done much TTRPG, but it's pretty legit. Definitely better to lose an rp partner or leave a site than keep suffering through a bad one

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Wisdom saga drops in two days and I have HYPE!
Good to see another EPIC enjoyer. I am so hype for the Telemachus song.

Same! Though I am most excited for the god games to be completed. Coming across an animatic for the Aphrodite segment was what got me into EPIC
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I'd really like to see more modern/dystopia roleplays return. I miss the grit. I think my ideal would be a gritty, modern city meets yokai/fantasy type rp. I enjoy the increased intimacy of rping in a city setting compared to when characters are split across regions, and I'd love to be able to pick and choose what sort of creature I play as. I find supernatural too limiting as it's usually just vampire, werewolves, witches. Let me play whatever species I fancy!

I'd also like to see more mythological rps. I've been into EPIC lately and I am craving that world. (Wisdom Saga in three days, anyone? Cannot wait!)
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if you bond with paras, are you actually bonded with the bug or the mushrooms on its back…



This got me curious and i looked up the pokedex for paras and parasect to see how they work.

For Paras, you bond with the bug. At this point, the mushrooms are still detachable and only absorb nutrients from the body, so the mind remains unaffected. You have a cute, little buddy with a fungal problem to manage, but otherwise, you’re both fine.

This all changes with parasect, where the mushroom has fully consumed your pokemon pal and you’re left living with the guilt that you wanted him to evolve so much that you allowed a parasitic mushroom to consume his very mind. Could you bond with that mushroom after? Maybe. But everyone will know what you did :)
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Thanks, I’m new to pp so wasn’t aware there was an archive section.

If the id is used to change css classes, does that mean the html structure must remain exactly the same for each forum row (with creative use of something like display none to hide unneeded sections) or is there a way to change this too according to forum ID?
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Hello!

I am currently in the process of trying to build a skin for the first time, and one of the things I am looking at is putting in a custom forum row layout as I've seen other sites do it and I really like it.

I'm comfortable with designing the layout in codepen using css grid, so it's really the installation I don't get. How do you tell JCINK which design relates to which forum section? Is it done using the forum ID somehow, or does it require javascript?

A lot of the JCINK tutorials I've come across focus on forums where you have the same design for all forum rows. I've googled and checked the forum for anyone asking these questions, but haven't come across an answer so far. I've also downloaded a few free skins to see if I could glean some answers, but none of them have customised layouts for the forum row section.

I'd really appreciate any tips people can give me. I've drawn a diagram below to show some of the structure I am hoping to include, as I'm not done much of the coding yet.

Thanks for the time :)

example
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- My characters tend to have certain phrases they use a lot, and if I'm rusty on them, I'll use the phrase to get into character. 'Bah' is one. 'Oh please / As if ' is another. 'I do believe' is a third. And one uses reckon every three sentences.

- I can't use the FC of a character I know. I've purposefully not watched certain anime (tiger & bunny) to avoid the issue of knowing what the character is actually like.

- I really like playing alternative view points when it comes to site issues, especially if that issue isn't currently being commented on by other characters.


- I have an annoying habit of having my characters look, frown, stare, gaze, as if the eyes are the only thing that exist and there's no other way to express body language. I need to work on it xD