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oh boy, where do i even start?
organize? pls, my life is in a constant disarray. sometimes i need gaga to remind me:
when really? i'm not, but it's nice to be told! though, organizing takes time! it depends on your schedule and what exactly all you do/what exactly is your busy schedule in order to give a proper response to your post, ✦ MAD . :c but, i think, it'll just take awhile before you can get the hang of it. cause as you said, you're stressed! it shouldn't be expected that you get everything down pack in one swing! i mean you have a job, you're living in frickin' japan--
i don't know where you were originally living, but you've only been there for a small while now (?), so it's only natural that this is still taking sometime/you're getting accustomed to your environment.
from the sounds of it you like your job (somewhat i'm assuming), and those responsibilities are probably what's drowning you! i actually found a pretty unique video of someone showcasing how they keep organized [ click here ]! it's a pretty short video, and a tumblr link, but i thought it was pretty unique/creative!! i don't know if this will inspire you or help a little bit, but i'll make sure to keep a look out or alert you if anything more helpful involving organizational tips and vids sprout/come across platforms i reside on! as for the issue with expecting to see change at work? sometimes you have to be a bit more...i don't want to say pushy? i guess, for lack thereof wording, try to bring it up every now and then? y'know, to serve as a reminder or to help move those changes, if that's not asking to much from your job. :c if this change so to speak will definitely help lighten your stress, i say continuously advocate the change you wish to happen at your job by thoroughly trying to slide it in every now and then as a reminder for your boss that this will really help strengthen your productivity more then it is now; especially if it'll relinquish some stress!
i may not be able to offer much toward real life advice, but for rp advice! i say don't feel too bad about not having a presence on site. honestly, as long as you're there out of characterly and able to help oocly, that's all that matters. and if you can't afford to spend an hour or two with your members, then that's also okay! like you said, you have a great staff helping you out--so they should be pretty understanding, all that matters is that you're there to help when you can be/offer opinions/ideas/mend situations when you can. you don't have to be active icly, but oocly is all that matters/helps keep a site going/strong when they see the head admin's presence!
remember:
and if it gets to be too much, take a break. let your co-admin do it up while you gather yourself and recalibrate those thought juices! b/c you earned it, you need it, and you deserve it.
now....
and gimme a wiggle.
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last edit on Dec 6, 2018 0:05:41 GMT by light
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