Tired so bear with me here...but...
Roadwarden — Interactive fiction game/visual novel where you journey to a mysterious peninsula,
hired by a guild to “spread their influence”, you can determine your character’s beliefs, personality, class and so on. The world is grim — and the choices are yours to make which can lead you to unfurling mysteries, making relatively drastic decisions... it’s a very open text-based game, and you probably won’t see everything your first play through. I’m a big fan of interactive fiction games (Sorcery! Comes to mind, a classic I think everyone should try the digital version but definitely not underrated) and Roadwarden is up there!
Thea: The Awakening and Thea: The Shattering — These are strange strategy games based on Slavic mythology that is both a village management sim, a visual novel, a card game, a roguelike...and more! Also, the editor is so robust and makes it easy to add your /own/ random events, stories, characters, and so on...And your main character, in The Shattering, can be a genderless rat. One of my favourite ways to play the game is this way
Kingsway — an RPG that you play on a fake windows OS, it’s a roguelike as well, with lots of customization and so on. It’s been updated ever since it came out and I adore it
Townscaper — relaxing game where you build a town. Not much more to it, but I do play it to unwind. Also, you can export the towns you generate and use them for stuff
The Age of Decadence — post apocalypse text-heavy RPG inspired by Fallout 1 and 2. It’s profoundly difficult. You start the game joinning one of the factions, and every character start is uniquely different and has a different story + story opportunities (think Dragon Age Origins but EVEN more content and specific paths for you based on what you pick). It’s a bit janky and all that, def not for everyone as it is a bit dated...
You can play as an entirely non-combat character, using your speech to get through things. And honestly... I recommend cheating using console and save scumming if you find the game hard. It’s worth it if you end up enjoying the setting and what the game is trying to offer.
Caves of Qud – Where do I start... I’ll just copy and paste the desc “Caves of Qud is a science fantasy roguelike epic steeped in retrofuturism, deep simulation, and swathes of sentient plants. Come inhabit an exotic world and chisel through layers of thousand-year-old civilizations.” Think Dwarf Fortress with the sheer scope of this game and its stimulation. It has a lot of options that make the game more forgiving (even a “roleplay” mode), a dynamic faction system, and you can make your character into a mutant monstrosity. It’s one of the best roguelikes I’ve ever played.
I could go on and on x.x But I won’t! For now.
I appreciate all the suggestions in this thread, I love learning of more games to check out